By David Simmons
The days of our years are threescore
years and ten;
and if by reason of strength they be fourscore years,
yet is their strength labour and sorrow;
for it is soon cut off, and we fly away.
and if by reason of strength they be fourscore years,
yet is their strength labour and sorrow;
for it is soon cut off, and we fly away.
– Psalm 90:10
The place was teeming with people; it
was some sort of travel terminal, for ferries or maybe an airport.
Outside, there was a cataclysm: The
Earth was collapsing into itself. We had been warned that there was
no escape; the passenger terminal would be crushed within minutes,
and us along with it.
There was remarkably little panic, even
as the inevitable happened: The walls closed in on us, and our bodies
were pushed closer and closer to one another.
My own thoughts were not fear, but
curiosity: What would it feel like to be crushed to death? Would
there be pain?
The answer came quickly. No pain, just
a relentless sensation of squeezing on my head.
Then, nothing. Blackness.
But not quite nothing. Memories emerged
from the darkness. The most prominent was the memory of breathing,
that simple pleasure of drawing air into the lungs, the invisible
stuff of life. How appropriate that the Latin spirare gives us
both “respire” and “inspire”; the latter in the sense that
the gods breathe truth or ideas into our souls.
But was it only a memory? It seemed so
real. And then it was: I woke up, perspiring, my heart racing.
As far as I can recall, this was the
first dream I’ve ever had in which I died. I have recurring dreams
in which I am submerged in water, and in many of them I take a breath
before I reach the surface, but they are Aqua-Lung–type breaths,
never fatal. Normally the water is calm, though after my experience
in the Boxing Day tsunami of 2004, the dreams occurred in rivers or
rapids for a while.
I write this on my sixty-first
birthday, officially the day when my sixth decade of taking up
unproductive space on this planet draws to a close, and a seventh
begins. We are often taught that the Bible limits our time to “three
score and ten” years; in fact that phrase only appears once in the
Good Book, in Psalm 90, “A Prayer of Moses the Man of God”.
Forty years ago this December, I
entered the hospital room where my mother was nearing the end of her
battle with cancer. She was awake but her face was in an oxygen mask,
so I couldn’t talk to her; only her eyes smiled at me. I left for
my afternoon shift at the local plywood plant. I returned home after
midnight and fell asleep, to be awakened by a phone call from my
father, asking me as his voice cracked to call our pastor and ask him
to come to the hospital. I did so, groggy with sleep, then crawled
back into bed. Then I realized why Dad had called, got up, jumped
into the car and rushed to the hospital myself.
When I entered her room, she was alone.
The tubes and oxygen were gone; she lay there in peace. I tiptoed out
to the hall. Dad appeared; “Did you know she’s gone?” he said
quietly.
Still in my early twenties, I had not
had much need to think about death; it was an abstract, faraway
concept. Now it had become reality, taking from me the person with
whom I had always been closest, and no one has matched that closeness
since. But though of course I was sad, sadder than I have ever been
before or since, the more overwhelming feeling was of gratitude that
her suffering was finished forever.
I’ve not feared death since. Despite
that, my own brushes with it have been very few. The most recent was
last month, when I contracted a serious infection that dragged my
blood pressure down to dangerous levels. But this was very brief and
by the time I learned I had had one foot in the grave (literally; the
left one), I was recovering. Today I begin Decade 7 in excellent
health.
And so we look again at Psalm 90, this
time in a modern English version, where Moses pleads:
Teach us to number our days,
that we may gain a heart of wisdom.
that we may gain a heart of wisdom.
Amen.